Who is Dr. Jim?

The Forgiving Way


Jim's Training, Experience  and his article  Forgiveness Therapy Perspective
 

 
 
Dr. Jim Dincalci brings over 37 years of experience in counseling & the healing arts. Besides presenting public workshops since 1973, he has taught important aspects of emotional, mental and spiritual health in several universities and professional conference since 1984. He's been doing forgiveness and reconciliation counseling and training across the United States, for the past 14 years. He presently lives in Southwest Florida and is on a sabbatical preparing to publish his book on Forgiveness Therapy.

Jim has Doctorates in Divinity and in Religious Studies with a cross-cultural and metaphysical emphasis from Emerson Institute. His dissertation was on Forgiveness. His Masters Degree is in Transpersonal Counseling Psychology from John F. Kennedy University. He is a trained psychotherapist; has worked as a child, adolescent and family therapist; has three years of experience as a facilitator in domestic violence and anger control groups for men and teens; worked as a school-based clinical therapist in Hawaii; was a meditation instructor for ten years in Sonoma County, California; is trained as a police, fire, and emergency medical chaplain; and was a volunteer Law Enforcement Chaplain in Sonoma County. 

Besides his work since the 60's in traditional and alternative health, pastoral counseling and psychotherapy, he worked intensively with anthropologist Angeles Arrien, Ph.D., and others in cross-cultural healing for over ten years. From 2001 to 2005, at Sonoma State University, as an associate professor, he taught a regular forgiveness therapy course in their Conflict Resolution program. His forgiveness courses have been in the curriculum of California State University- Hayward, California State University - Fresno, University Of The Pacific, City College Of San Francisco, Santa Rosa Junior College, and College of Marin. From 1984 to 1991, he taught graduate and undergraduate courses in cross-cultural healing & spiritual perspectives in Holistic Health and Psychology at John F. Kennedy University, The Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, and California Institute of Integral Studies, all in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Over fourteen years ago, he had a personal transformation through a profound forgiveness process. This transformation and his forgiveness work with others has encouraged him to become a very strong advocate for the power of forgiveness and for the development of an effective forgiveness therapy and training. He has formed "The Forgiveness Foundation" with its 501(c3) status so that forgiveness can more readily occur around the world. Please check it out at: http://www.forgivenessfoundation.org .


Forgiveness Therapy Perspective

My own life was completely transformed through a forgiveness process which came to me one afternoon as a result of over thirty five years of studying and practicing various psychological, spiritual and holistic health practices. In addition, since then, I've gained a great deal of experience and insight from 1) studying forgiveness and brain research plus, 2) developing and presenting many forgiveness processes in my workshops, and 3) doing forgiveness groups and private forgiveness counseling through the years. As a result, the forgiveness training and work I present has been refined, expanded and used very successfully across the country to bring healing and transformation into peoples' lives. My book on this life-changing forgiveness work will be published in 2006.

My approach integrates brain/mind research in medicine, professional research in forgiveness, the psychological/ emotional mechanisms within the brain/mind which prevent forgiveness and the spiritual methods used through the ages which are effective in aiding forgiveness. In addition, we have an intuitive ethical/moral sense within us which when connected with, assists us in the process of forgiving. Through forgiveness, we reconnect with a tremendous Power, which brings much more love, peace, and joy into our everyday emotional and spiritual life.

The un-forgiving mind and the mental defense mechanisms we use to keep it in place must be addressed for deep, effective forgiveness to occur. If these defenses are not addressed, forgiveness will be more difficult to maintain, thus joy, love and peace can be less available. People have used forgiveness through the eons to transform their lives. Major life changes have occurred without knowing these defense mechanisms; however, now, coupled with the understanding we have of the brain/mind functions and defense mechanisms, we have an even more powerful tool which can help people to look deeper at difficult situations  thus, forgiving more easily and effectively. 

Here are links to articles I've written. (These links are also on the Articles page.): 

The Power inForgiveness
Why Forgive
Defining Forgiveness
Brain Functions

The more I do this forgiveness work, the more I continue to be astounded at the power of forgiveness to heal all avenues of life - physical, emotional, mental and spiritual.  When people forgive, their lives become richer, healthier, happier and certainly filled with more love and peace.

 
 
 
Contact Jim Dincalci at 239-699-9732

Email: jimdin@theforgivingway.com

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